I stand in the path of transformation....
Parenting has been quite an intriguing topic of study and research for some,while a habitual way of being for some,a diligent responsibility for a few others...the views could be myriad in nature yet all leads to one thing --transformation of human being
Calling it a rebirth would aptly fit-in here
Human beings over generations have been trying to instill,create, practice certain ways of parenting.
Needless to say these practices became beliefs over time,human beings are reborn in this phase..a profound listening gets created from within and it rings every moment
But in today's world ,parenting has been seen as a chore,supplemented with goods and wordly things to explore ..
I am not being judgemental at this point of expression but it leads me to rethink on our accountability to this very existence of each one of us
A few questions I asked myself was :
1. If i chose to really create a genetic combination and bring another human being to this world,does my job end there
2. Providing with all the play toys ,structures to keep the child occupied and gadgets to explore ,exposing them to too many things at the same time ,am I building a child of character ( this is quite a meaning here)
3. Creating values as some to do things without really enseeding it from within am i doing justice to this world
4. Juggling and dreaming to create life of abundance along with upbringing a child...what am i imbibing onto the future generation....
5.How well am I really being involved in every stage and conversation of the child fully without any to do list at the back of my mind
6.How much of time and space I give to the child without any intention of making the child know more or learn something and just be with the child
Even if I have a progressive thought to any of the above....I am on the path way of transformation .....
Kudos to the creator for having created such wonderful strategy(...now a logical mind needs a term to complete the thought)...... for ensuring human beings take birth,grow,thrive,think,create,recreate....and transform...
All our ancestors did create wonderful structures to keep ths journey to be quite an interesting one....Somehow the link has been smudged and today we are at the verge of seeing different disorders,issues with young children and parents...
My whole effort is to create this thread of link by learning,amassing the needed information,creating structures applicable to modern days and yet keep the base intention strong.....
As a mother myself ,am practising ,inventing,dscovering ...I know this is forever but sharing the same and re-creating it would be a good thing to do ..says my logical mind....
to continue....with stages of parenting and collective musings.....
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